Well I've been trying to practise this here husbandology...ie as the good book says to put your partner to the forefront and ignore the needsvof all others. Well that lasted until I saw what said husband was doing to my sons. For example my youngest at16 telling his father about his football season on Christmas day. Not for want of availability, or phone number but sadly for lack of interest. I do not think anyone can experience a more heart wrenching episode of life smacks into reality than listening to your son tell his daddy all about his football season on Christmas day evening. He never called unless he was properly 'fortified'. My 3rd son Joe knew the drill and would have no part. He was part of the charade that called us the year before when outlawed by said husbands own words we were unable to visit the in laws, we stayed at my father's home. Puzzled and heart broken to be so divided my 3 sons with their dad in morocco whist I and my youngest had to bear the burden of being an outsider? A What? What do you call the 4 th son you leave behind? That you tell was never loved like the others? How does one deal with such evil? Very badly I'm afraid...
Well I've been trying to practise this here husbandology...ie as the good book says to put your partner to the forefront and ignore the needsvof all others. Well that lasted until I saw what said husband was doing to my sons. For example my youngest at16 telling his father about his football season on Christmas day. Not for want of availability, or phone number but sadly for lack of interest. I do not think anyone can experience a more heart wrenching episode of life smacks into reality than listening to your son tell his daddy all about his football season on Christmas day evening. He never called unless he was properly 'fortified'. My 3rd son Joe knew the drill and would have no part. He was part of the charade that called us the year before when outlawed by said husbands own words we were unable to visit the in laws, we stayed at my father's home. Puzzled and heart broken to be so divided my 3 sons with their dad in morocco whist I and my youngest had to bear the burden of being an outsider? A What? What do you call the 4 th son you leave behind? That you tell was never loved like the others? How does one deal with such evil?
ReplyDeleteVery badly I'm afraid...